The Unwillingness to Change: Breaking Free from the Loop of Darkness

As the New Year begins, many of us reflect on our lives, hoping for change, growth, and happiness. Yet, for most, these aspirations remain unfulfilled. Why? Because change requires us to confront a truth that many are unwilling to face: the experiences we live are not random; they are co-creations born from our choices, thoughts, and energy.

In coaching, we often explore the idea that the life we live is the minimum comfortable state our limited minds have set for us. This state, while unsatisfactory, feels safe because it is familiar. Expansion, growth, and evolution demand discomfort—discomfort that comes from looking at ourselves with brutal honesty and taking responsibility for the lives we’ve created.

The Barrier to Change: The Unwillingness to Look Within

One of the greatest barriers to transformation is our unwillingness to look within. The human mind is a master of deflection, finding fault in others, circumstances, or even God, instead of acknowledging its own role.

The Comfort of Blame

Blaming others or external forces provides temporary relief from the weight of responsibility. It allows us to stay in our current state, avoiding the work required for change. But this comfort comes at a cost: stagnation. But Life is Movement, and what is stagnation if not a wish to be calling a slow Death unto us ?…

The Energy of Sinful Choices

Every thought and action carries energy. When we indulge in activities or thoughts rooted in darkness—jealousy, resentment, greed, self-pity, or dishonesty—we perpetuate a cycle of negativity. These choices, no matter how small they seem, accumulate, creating a dense energy that blinds us to the truth. Over time, we become numb, unable to see the connection between our choices and the experiences we live. This… is a state of Delusion and Separation, that unfortunately so many have chosen as their main experience and “reality” in Life.

The Power of Righteousness

In my coaching sessions, I emphasize one essential truth: righteousness is the key to a happy life. This is not about adhering to dogma or superficial morality but aligning our thoughts and actions with the Light—with love, honesty, gratitude, and integrity.

Sins Are Not Harmless Games

Modern culture often trivializes sin, treating it as a harmless indulgence or even a form of self-expression. But the truth lies beyond what we see. Sinful thoughts and actions attract darkness, creating a downward spiral that traps us in despair and limits our capacity for growth.

Energy and Evolution

Everything is energy. When we align ourselves with thoughts and actions of Light, we attract positivity, growth, and clarity. Conversely, darkness begets more darkness, pulling us further away from the truth and our potential. This is not punishment but the natural law of cause and effect, a reflection of the choices we make daily.

Co-Creation: The Role of Free Will

One of the most profound truths we often resist is that life is not random. The experiences we live are a co-creation with the source of all things—God, the Universe, Allah, or whatever name resonates with you. This Source respects the free will we’ve been given, providing the tools and circumstances that align with the energy we emit.

“This Isn’t What I Wanted”

Many struggle with the idea that their current circumstances reflect their desires. They argue, “This isn’t what I wanted.” But wanting is not a conscious act alone—it is the sum of our actions, thoughts, and beliefs. If our minds are filled with negativity, doubt, and resistance, the life we experience will mirror that.

The Tools Are Always Provided

The Source always provides what we need to evolve. Whether it’s a challenge to overcome, a person to guide us, or an insight that shifts our perspective, the tools for growth are always present. The question is: are we willing to see them?

Breaking the Cycle: Steps to Transformation

If we truly desire change, we must break the loop of darkness and align ourselves with the Light. This requires courage, honesty, and a commitment to righteousness.

1. Take Responsibility
   Stop blaming others or external forces. Acknowledge that your life is a reflection of your choices, thoughts, and energy.
2. Confront the Darkness
   Identify the thoughts and actions that perpetuate negativity in your life. Be brutally honest with yourself, and commit to changing them.
3. Align with the Light
   Replace negative thoughts and actions with those rooted in love, gratitude, and integrity. Remember, even small shifts in energy can create profound changes.
4. Trust the Process
   Understand that growth is a journey. Challenges are not obstacles but opportunities for evolution. Trust that the Source is guiding you toward your highest potential.
5. Commit to Righteousness
   Live each day with intention, aligning your actions with the principles of Light. This alignment will attract clarity, peace, and joy into your life.

The Truth About Change

Change is not about fixing external circumstances but transforming the internal world of thoughts and beliefs. It requires us to see the truth: that we are not victims of life that there is no-one else to blame, and that we are the active participants in its creation.

When we embrace this truth, we unlock the power to evolve. We move beyond the minimum comfortable state, expanding into a life of infinite potential. This is not easy, but it is worth it. The journey to transformation begins with a single step: the willingness to look within and align with the Light.

This New Year, let us commit to breaking free from the loops of darkness. Let us choose love over fear, responsibility over blame, and Light over despair. In doing so, we not only transform our lives but align with the infinite wisdom of the Source, co-creating a reality of joy, growth, and peace.

The choice is yours. What will you create? Because for now what is coming is what you have already created and called unto you while sleeping in your own darkness…